About Me

Hey, I'm Katey,

If you found your way here from TikTok, welcome. You've seen the clips, the music, the quick smiles. But let's be honest—social media is loud. It's a crowded room where everyone is shouting. I built this blog as my quiet corner. A place to take off the heels, pour a glass of wine, and actually talk.

Why I Love This Chapter of My Life.

People often ask me if I get lonely living alone in my 30s. The truth? I've never felt more free. I love waking up in an empty apartment with just the sunlight and my coffee. I love that my time belongs entirely to me. I've built a life that is peaceful, curated, and intentionally private.

Being "Selective" is My Luxury.

I'm not here to play games. I've learned that the most expensive thing in the world is my energy. So, being single isn't about waiting for someone to "save" me. It's about waiting for someone who can actually match my peace.

Stay a While

I can't reply to every "Hi" in my DMs (it gets overwhelming!). But I read everything here. This is where I'm most real. If you're tired of the noise, you're in the right place.

To filter out bots and fake profiles, I only reply to emails that include the Secret Passcode. You can find it hidden at the very end of my latest post: 'Why I Wiped the Slate Clean'.

Once you find it, please email it to hi@withkatey.com along with who you are so I know I'm talking to a real person.

Welcome to my inner circle.

Love, Katey ❤